Sir said we haven’t really done much D/s yet. In my head I thought, “Well what the fuck have I been blogging about!?” Maybe we haven’t done a lot of protocol, but in my mind if he is directing me, if I feel the urge to follow his direction, if there is a lesson learned or a difficult result for my behaviors, if there is a change in my behavior because I know it will please him, if there is pain involved, it is D/s. That is the kind of submission I have to give. Once, a long time ago, When Sir first started considering me, the first time, he told me he liked my hair long. It was not an order. Yet, the next time I went to the salon, I called him first and asked for permission to get a trim and how much I could take off.